This worksheet is about identifying what makes you angry — called “anger triggers.” The goal is to help you become aware of the things, people, places, or situations that set off your anger so you can manage it better.
Let’s go step by step:
1.
Emotions/Thoughts – These are feelings or thoughts inside you that might make you snap. For example: feeling tired, stressed, or thinking “Nobody listens to me!”
→ You could write: *Feeling overwhelmed with homework* or *Thinking I’m being treated unfairly.*
2.
People – These are specific individuals who tend to upset you. It could be someone at school, home, or even a stranger.
→ Example: *My little brother when he takes my stuff* or *A classmate who always interrupts me.*
3.
Places/Things – Sometimes certain locations or objects remind you of bad experiences or just annoy you.
→ Example: *The cafeteria because it’s too loud* or *My phone when it freezes during an important message.*
4.
Situations – These are events or circumstances that trigger anger. They often involve how others act toward you.
→ Example: *When someone cuts in line* or *Being blamed for something I didn’t do.*
5.
Your Three Biggest Triggers – Think about which ones happen most often or make you angriest. Write them down clearly.
→ Example:
1. When my mom nags me about cleaning my room
2. When my friend cancels plans last minute
3. When I get a low grade after studying hard
Remember: There’s no right or wrong answer — this is personal to YOU. The more honest you are, the more helpful this will be for managing your anger.
Final Answer:
You should fill in each blank with your own personal examples based on what actually makes you angry. Here’s one possible completed version (but yours will be different):
- Emotions/Thoughts: Feeling ignored or misunderstood
- People: My teammate who doesn’t pull their weight
- Places/Things: The bus stop where I wait too long every morning
- Situations: Being interrupted while speaking
- Three biggest triggers:
1. When someone lies to me
2. When I’m stuck in traffic and late
3. When my sibling borrows my clothes without asking
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of anger triggers worksheet.