Let’s go through each situation one by one. The goal is to think of a kind, polite thing to say — even if you don’t really feel that way inside. This isn’t about lying to be mean — it’s about being respectful and not hurting someone’s feelings.
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Situation 1: Uncle shows you his favorite neck ties!
You think: “I don’t like looking at ties!”
But instead of saying that, you want to give a compliment.
What could you say? Maybe focus on something positive — like the color, or how neat he looks, or that he has good taste.
→ Polite compliment: “Wow, those are really cool colors! You have great style!”
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Situation 2: Present from Aunt: soap and a brush!
You think: “I don’t want it!”
But again, we’re trying to be polite. Even if you don’t love the gift, you can thank her for thinking of you.
→ Polite response: “Thank you so much, Auntie! That’s so thoughtful of you.”
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Situation 3: Girl plays music for the class, badly!
You think: “That sounds bad!”
But saying that would hurt her feelings. Instead, find something nice to say — maybe about her effort, or courage, or one small thing that was okay.
→ Polite compliment: “Great job playing in front of everyone! I bet you’ll get even better with practice.”
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Final Answer:
1. “Wow, those are really cool colors! You have great style!”
2. “Thank you so much, Auntie! That’s so thoughtful of you.”
3. “Great job playing in front of everyone! I bet you’ll get even better with practice.”
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of asperger social skills worksheet.
