- The Enabler: Often the caretaker who knowingly or unknowingly makes efforts to deny that addiction is a problem. Tries to keep it in from others and often makes excuses for the addict’s behaviours.
- The Hero: The child who works very hard to excel in everything as a way to make up for the family’s shortcomings. Is under a lot of pressure to be the best.
- The Scapegoat: The child who is the anti-hero. They begin displaying disorderly behaviour as a way to turn everyone’s attention towards them. They often end up being rejected instead.
- The Lost Child: The child that does not seek attention and begins to fade into the background. They remain quiet and isolated from others and become emotionally withdrawn.
- The Mascot: Often called the clown, who tried to destress and manage their internal struggles by relying on humour. They are the ones giving out cheeky remarks and getting themselves in trouble to get a laugh out of everyone. When in reality, they are just escaping their own pain and fear.
- The Addict: Finally, the individual dealing with an addiction that has drastically affected their thoughts and to confront. They let alcohol serve as a temporary escape while their behaviour continues to become more erratic and harmful to the family.
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of family roles in addiction worksheet.
