To solve this, we need to look at each statement and decide if it shows a
healthy friendship (write “H”) or an
unhealthy one (write “U”).
Let’s go step by step:
1.
Your friend calls you multiple times and gets upset if you don’t respond quickly.
→ This is controlling behavior. Healthy friends respect your time and space. →
U
2.
Your friend does not want you hanging out with your friends anymore.
→ That’s isolating you — unhealthy. Friends should support your other relationships. →
U
3.
Your friend listens to you and respects your opinion.
→ Listening and respecting = healthy! →
H
4.
Your friend encourages you to not listen to your supervisor and follow the rules.
→ Encouraging rule-breaking? Not good. Healthy friends encourage responsibility. →
U
5.
Your friend is supportive of your goals and dreams.
→ Supportive = healthy! →
H
6.
Your friend gets jealous when you are talking to other people.
→ Jealousy like that is possessive — unhealthy. →
U
7.
Your friend is willing to sit down and talk even when you disagree with something.
→ Talking through disagreements = healthy communication. →
H
8.
Your friend calls you names and makes you feel bad about yourself.
→ Name-calling and putting you down = abusive/unhealthy. →
U
9.
Your friend shows up randomly wherever you are just to check up on you.
→ That’s stalking/controlling — not respectful of privacy. →
U
10.
Your friend wants you to spend all your free time with them.
→ Too clingy — healthy friendships allow for personal space. →
U
11.
Your friend trusts you and does not get mad when you are with others.
→ Trust and no jealousy = healthy. →
H
12.
Your friend listens to your needs.
→ Being attentive to your needs = caring and healthy. →
H
13.
Your friend logs into your email or social media accounts.
→ Invading your privacy = very unhealthy. →
U
14.
Your friend pressures you into doing things you do not want to do.
→ Pressure = coercion = unhealthy. →
U
15.
Your friend becomes upset with you when you tell them “no”.
→ Not respecting boundaries = unhealthy. →
U
16.
Your friend is honest with you.
→ Honesty builds trust = healthy. →
H
17.
Your friend ignores you and gives you the “silent treatment” when they get mad.
→ Silent treatment is manipulative — unhealthy way to handle conflict. →
U
18.
Your friend gives you compliments and is proud to be around you.
→ Positive reinforcement and pride in friendship = healthy. →
H
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Final Answer:
U
U
H
U
H
U
H
U
U
U
H
H
U
U
U
H
U
H
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of healthy vs unhealthy relationships worksheet.
