- How do you decide who gets to be in your inner circle?
I decide based on deep trust, mutual respect, and consistent emotional support. These are people who have proven they prioritize my well-being and with whom I share significant life experiences and vulnerabilities.
- When does a person move from one circle to another?
A person moves circles when the depth of our relationship evolves—either through increased trust, shared vulnerability, and time spent together (moving inward), or through betrayal, distance, or changing priorities (moving outward).
- What are the characteristics of a person in your inner circle?
They are empathetic, reliable, non-judgmental, and emotionally available. They respect my boundaries, celebrate my successes, and offer comfort during struggles without trying to fix me.
- What kind of information do you share with someone in your outer circle? How much time or energy do you spend?
I share surface-level information—hobbies, general updates, or work-related topics. I invest minimal time and energy, usually limited to casual interactions or group settings.
- What kind of information do you share with someone in your middle circle? How much time or energy do you spend?
I share personal opinions, feelings about daily life, and some challenges. I invest moderate time and energy—regular check-ins, social outings, or deeper conversations occasionally.
- What kind of information do you share with someone in your inner circle? How much time or energy do you spend?
I share my deepest fears, dreams, traumas, and insecurities. I invest significant time and energy—frequent, meaningful conversations, emotional presence, and intentional effort to nurture the relationship.
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of respecting boundaries worksheet.
