The 8 C's of IFS and Parts Mapping Exercise — a guide to understanding self-energy and inner parts through self-reflection.
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The image you've uploaded contains a Parts Mapping Exercise based on Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy, developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz. This exercise is designed to help individuals identify and understand the different "parts" of their psyche — internal subpersonalities or aspects of self — that influence thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
Let’s break down what this exercise is about and how to solve it step-by-step.
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On the right-hand side of the image, there’s a list titled *"The 8 C's of IFS"* — these are qualities of the core Self, which is the healthy, balanced center of who we are. When we're operating from our core Self, we exhibit:
1. Calm – Serenity regardless of circumstances.
2. Clarity – Ability to perceive situations clearly without distortion.
3. Curiosity – Desire to explore new things with wonder.
4. Compassion – Being open-hearted and non-judgmental.
5. Courage – Staying present in difficult situations.
6. Creativity – Flow state where imagination is freely expressed.
7. Confidence – Trust in oneself and one’s abilities.
8. Connectedness – Feeling linked to others and the world.
When we’re not in our Self, we may be triggered by parts (subpersonalities), such as protectors or exiles, that can take over and lead us away from these qualities.
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This exercise helps you map out an internal part (e.g., a fear-based voice, a critical inner judge, a people-pleasing part) using six questions. You go through each step to explore the part more deeply.
#### ✔ Step-by-Step Instructions
Here’s how to complete the Parts Mapping Exercise:
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> *Where do you feel this part in your body? What thoughts, words, or images are coming to mind?*
- Purpose: Locate the physical sensation and mental content associated with the part.
- Example: “I feel tightness in my chest when I think about speaking up at meetings. A voice says, ‘You’ll make a fool of yourself.’”
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> *Focus on that specific element—the place in your body, and see what emerges.*
- Purpose: Deepen awareness of the part without judgment.
- Practice mindfulness: just observe sensations, emotions, and thoughts without reacting.
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> *What else do you notice about that part? How far are you from that part? How old do you think it is? What thoughts or emotions are emerging?*
- Purpose: Uncover deeper layers of the part.
- Ask: Is this part trying to protect you? What memory might be tied to it?
- Example: “This part feels like a 10-year-old child. It remembers being mocked in school.”
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> *How do you feel towards this part? More you check for self-energy and the 8C’s.*
- Purpose: Notice your emotional response to the part.
- Are you angry, afraid, or compassionate toward it?
- Try to connect with the Self (the calm, curious observer) rather than reacting.
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> *What would the Part like you to know? What is its role? What is its purpose? How old does it think you are? How old is it?*
- Purpose: Develop empathy and understanding.
- Imagine talking to the part as if it were a child or a friend.
- Example: “I see you’re scared. You want me to stay safe. Thank you for trying to protect me.”
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> *What is the Part afraid would happen if it stopped doing what it’s doing? Each time you may rate the answers until nothing comes.*
- Purpose: Identify the underlying fear driving the part.
- Example: “If I stop being so careful, someone will hurt me.” Or “If I speak up, I’ll be rejected.”
- This reveals the exile (a vulnerable part) that the protector is shielding.
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Once you’ve mapped the part, the next step in IFS is to:
- Connect with the part compassionately.
- Understand its intention.
- Reassure it that you’re now safe and can handle the threat.
- Allow it to relax and release its protective role.
Eventually, the part can return to a healthy, balanced state — no longer running your life.
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The circular diagram shows the 8 C's of IFS arranged in a wheel. This visual tool helps you:
- Rate how much you feel each quality (on a scale of 0–5).
- Reflect on where you're strong and where you might need healing.
- Use the scores to guide your therapy or self-exploration.
For example:
- If you score low in Calm, you might have parts that are easily triggered.
- If you score low in Confidence, you may have a part that fears failure.
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1. Choose a specific part (e.g., “my inner critic,” “my people-pleaser,” “my anxious voice”).
2. Go through the 6 steps one by one.
3. Write down your observations.
4. Reflect on the fear behind the part.
5. Practice compassionate dialogue with it.
6. Re-rate your 8 C's after the process — often, you'll notice improvement.
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Suppose you're feeling overwhelmed at work.
- Part Identified: “The Overachiever”
- Step 1: Feels like pressure in the forehead; thinks “I must do everything perfectly.”
- Step 2: Focus on the pressure — it gets stronger when deadlines approach.
- Step 3: Feels like a 12-year-old boy who was praised only when he succeeded.
- Step 4: Feel frustrated with this part, but also sad for the child inside.
- Step 5: “I want you to know I’m not perfect, and that’s okay. I don’t need to prove myself anymore.”
- Step 6: Fear: “If I stop working hard, I’ll be abandoned or judged.”
→ Healing: Reassure the child that you’re now safe, and you don’t need to earn love through perfection.
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The Parts Mapping Exercise is a powerful tool for self-awareness and emotional healing within IFS therapy. By mapping your internal parts, you gain insight into why you react certain ways, and you begin to heal the wounded parts beneath the surface.
👉 Final Tip: Do this exercise regularly. Over time, you’ll learn to lead from your Self — calm, clear, and connected — instead of being driven by reactive parts.
Would you like a printable version or a guided journal template for this exercise?
Let’s break down what this exercise is about and how to solve it step-by-step.
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🔍 Overview of IFS: The 8 C's of Self-Leadership
On the right-hand side of the image, there’s a list titled *"The 8 C's of IFS"* — these are qualities of the core Self, which is the healthy, balanced center of who we are. When we're operating from our core Self, we exhibit:
1. Calm – Serenity regardless of circumstances.
2. Clarity – Ability to perceive situations clearly without distortion.
3. Curiosity – Desire to explore new things with wonder.
4. Compassion – Being open-hearted and non-judgmental.
5. Courage – Staying present in difficult situations.
6. Creativity – Flow state where imagination is freely expressed.
7. Confidence – Trust in oneself and one’s abilities.
8. Connectedness – Feeling linked to others and the world.
When we’re not in our Self, we may be triggered by parts (subpersonalities), such as protectors or exiles, that can take over and lead us away from these qualities.
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🧩 Parts Mapping Exercise: How It Works
This exercise helps you map out an internal part (e.g., a fear-based voice, a critical inner judge, a people-pleasing part) using six questions. You go through each step to explore the part more deeply.
#### ✔ Step-by-Step Instructions
Here’s how to complete the Parts Mapping Exercise:
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Step 1: Find the Part
> *Where do you feel this part in your body? What thoughts, words, or images are coming to mind?*
- Purpose: Locate the physical sensation and mental content associated with the part.
- Example: “I feel tightness in my chest when I think about speaking up at meetings. A voice says, ‘You’ll make a fool of yourself.’”
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Step 2: Focus
> *Focus on that specific element—the place in your body, and see what emerges.*
- Purpose: Deepen awareness of the part without judgment.
- Practice mindfulness: just observe sensations, emotions, and thoughts without reacting.
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Step 3: Flush It Out
> *What else do you notice about that part? How far are you from that part? How old do you think it is? What thoughts or emotions are emerging?*
- Purpose: Uncover deeper layers of the part.
- Ask: Is this part trying to protect you? What memory might be tied to it?
- Example: “This part feels like a 10-year-old child. It remembers being mocked in school.”
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Step 4: Feel
> *How do you feel towards this part? More you check for self-energy and the 8C’s.*
- Purpose: Notice your emotional response to the part.
- Are you angry, afraid, or compassionate toward it?
- Try to connect with the Self (the calm, curious observer) rather than reacting.
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Step 5: Be Friend
> *What would the Part like you to know? What is its role? What is its purpose? How old does it think you are? How old is it?*
- Purpose: Develop empathy and understanding.
- Imagine talking to the part as if it were a child or a friend.
- Example: “I see you’re scared. You want me to stay safe. Thank you for trying to protect me.”
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Step 6: Fears
> *What is the Part afraid would happen if it stopped doing what it’s doing? Each time you may rate the answers until nothing comes.*
- Purpose: Identify the underlying fear driving the part.
- Example: “If I stop being so careful, someone will hurt me.” Or “If I speak up, I’ll be rejected.”
- This reveals the exile (a vulnerable part) that the protector is shielding.
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🎯 Final Goal: Heal the Part
Once you’ve mapped the part, the next step in IFS is to:
- Connect with the part compassionately.
- Understand its intention.
- Reassure it that you’re now safe and can handle the threat.
- Allow it to relax and release its protective role.
Eventually, the part can return to a healthy, balanced state — no longer running your life.
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📊 Left Side: The Wheel of the 8 C's
The circular diagram shows the 8 C's of IFS arranged in a wheel. This visual tool helps you:
- Rate how much you feel each quality (on a scale of 0–5).
- Reflect on where you're strong and where you might need healing.
- Use the scores to guide your therapy or self-exploration.
For example:
- If you score low in Calm, you might have parts that are easily triggered.
- If you score low in Confidence, you may have a part that fears failure.
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✔ How to Use This Exercise
1. Choose a specific part (e.g., “my inner critic,” “my people-pleaser,” “my anxious voice”).
2. Go through the 6 steps one by one.
3. Write down your observations.
4. Reflect on the fear behind the part.
5. Practice compassionate dialogue with it.
6. Re-rate your 8 C's after the process — often, you'll notice improvement.
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💡 Example Application
Suppose you're feeling overwhelmed at work.
- Part Identified: “The Overachiever”
- Step 1: Feels like pressure in the forehead; thinks “I must do everything perfectly.”
- Step 2: Focus on the pressure — it gets stronger when deadlines approach.
- Step 3: Feels like a 12-year-old boy who was praised only when he succeeded.
- Step 4: Feel frustrated with this part, but also sad for the child inside.
- Step 5: “I want you to know I’m not perfect, and that’s okay. I don’t need to prove myself anymore.”
- Step 6: Fear: “If I stop working hard, I’ll be abandoned or judged.”
→ Healing: Reassure the child that you’re now safe, and you don’t need to earn love through perfection.
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🌱 Conclusion
The Parts Mapping Exercise is a powerful tool for self-awareness and emotional healing within IFS therapy. By mapping your internal parts, you gain insight into why you react certain ways, and you begin to heal the wounded parts beneath the surface.
👉 Final Tip: Do this exercise regularly. Over time, you’ll learn to lead from your Self — calm, clear, and connected — instead of being driven by reactive parts.
Would you like a printable version or a guided journal template for this exercise?
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of family systems theory worksheet.