Let’s walk through this step by step.
This worksheet is called a “Thought Record & Core Beliefs” tool. It helps you notice when you’re having negative thoughts, figure out what emotions they cause, and then change those thoughts to be more helpful or realistic.
The example given shows:
- On 1/1/22, something happened: Your boss criticized your work.
- The thought that came up was: “I’m such a failure, I’ll never be good enough.”
- That made the person feel shame (8/10) and sadness (7/10).
- Then they reframed the thought — meaning they changed it to something kinder and more true: “My boss’s criticism may be valid, but it doesn’t define my worth as a person. I’ll try to learn from it and do better next time.”
Then at the bottom, they looked deeper:
→ What core belief is behind that thought? → “I am not good enough.”
→ How can we reframe THAT belief? → “I am constantly learning and growing, and I have qualities and skills that make me unique and valuable. I will strive to improve, but I accept and love myself just as I am.”
Now, since there are blank rows in the table, the task is for YOU to fill them in with your own real-life examples — things that actually happened to you, what you thought, how you felt, and how you could think differently.
But since no specific situation was given for you to solve, and the image only has an example + blanks, the correct answer here is to understand that
this is a template for you to use on your own experiences — not a problem with one right answer.
However, if you’re being asked to complete one row as practice, let’s make up a simple, realistic example together so you see how it works.
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Let’s say today, you forgot to turn in your homework.
Step 1: DATE → Today’s date (let’s use 4/5/24)
Step 2: WHAT HAPPENED? → You forgot to turn in your math homework.
Step 3: WHAT THOUGHTS? → “I’m so stupid. I always mess up. My teacher thinks I don’t care.”
Step 4: EMOTION & INTENSITY → Guilt 9/10, Anxiety 8/10
Step 5: REFRAMED THOUGHT → “Everyone forgets sometimes. I can talk to my teacher and explain. I’ll set a reminder so it doesn’t happen again.”
Then, for the core beliefs part:
What core beliefs are coming up? → “I’m careless and unreliable.”
How can you reframe the beliefs? → “I’m human and sometimes I make mistakes. I can learn from them and get better at managing my responsibilities. I still care about doing well.”
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Final Answer:
Since this is a personal reflection tool, there is no single correct answer — but here’s one completed row based on a common student experience:
DATE: 4/5/24
WHAT HAPPENED?: Forgot to turn in math homework
WHAT THOUGHTS?: “I’m so stupid. I always mess up. My teacher thinks I don’t care.”
EMOTION & INTENSITY: Guilt 9/10, Anxiety 8/10
REFRAMED THOUGHT: “Everyone forgets sometimes. I can talk to my teacher and explain. I’ll set a reminder so it doesn’t happen again.”
Core belief: “I’m careless and unreliable.”
Reframed belief: “I’m human and sometimes I make mistakes. I can learn from them and get better at managing my responsibilities. I still care about doing well.”
Parent Tip: Review the logic above to help your child master the concept of cbt handouts for clients.